"Hunter's Story"
We
are writing this to share our story regarding the services we
have been able to secure over the years for our son, Hunter, who
has Autism. He attended a Special Day Class in an elementary school
in the Los Angeles Unified School District, after being diagnosed
with autism at age 3 ½ as the result of testing by the
school district. At that age he was a very sweet and very silent
little boy who displayed extraordinary abilities. He learned the
alphabet from Sesame Street, and then proceeded to memorize the
words he saw on the screen. He could spell an amazing number of
words using his magnetic letters on the floor. He had a special
love of baseball videos, and could spell the names of all the
Dodgers (both Brooklyn and L.A.), complete with batting averages!
However, he could hardly speak, and could not tolerate many sounds
that most people consider normal, along with many forms of touch.
Haircuts were torture, and he had no way of telling us other than
to scream.
Hunter was enrolled in a Special
Education Pre-School Program, and our journey on the maze of "services"
began. Over the years, we have made it our business to learn everything
we could about autism, and about the services available (although
not readily available without a fight), to children like Hunter.
The school district has always been, and continues to be, reluctant
(to put it mildly!) to pay for "extra" services. The
services Hunter has received have all been services that we brought
to the attention of the school district! We retained an attorney
who has acted as our advocate. We have been through mediation
and arbitration with the school system over an educational therapist
(who turned out to be Hunter's own "Annie Sullivan"
by giving him language). Ironically, the school district was responsible
for our legal fees when the attorney had to be called in to fight
for us! We fought for speech and occupational therapies, both
school and clinic based, and won! We had even secured funding
from the school district for Fast Forward, a computer-based language
program, and for Auditory Integration Training, now referred to
as Digital Auditory Aerobics, along with his current Non-Public
School placement!
Our advice to parents is simple.
Don't take "NO" for an answer! Find out what services
are available, and tell the school system that it is your child's
right to have reasonable and appropriate accommodations, which
are guaranteed by Federal Law! Be persistent and do everything
you can to insure your child is not left behind!
We had an IEP meeting, during which
time we presented information about Digital Auditory Aerobics,
explaining the potential this treatment had for improving our
son's life. Of course, we were told "NO". We made daily
phone calls to district employees whose job it was to approve
services like this. We called so much, we were on a first name
basis with many of these people, and they knew we weren't going
away. Finally, they approved the funding of this service.
What we remember most is Hunter's
first birthday after receiving Digital Auditory Aerobics. Birthdays
in our house were nightmares! Hunter would spend the day under
the dining room table with his fingers in his ears, crying and
trying to bite anyone who approached him. The singing of "Happy
Birthday", people's voices, blowing sounds, and the glowing
of the candles, caused him what seemed to be actual physical pain,
due to the auditory and sensory overload.
During his first birthday after
treatment, he came out of his room, sat at the table, and said,
"So, are you going to sing to me now?" "And where
are my presents?" My wife and I looked at each other, brought
out the cake, lit the candles, and sang to our son. He blew out
the candles, and took his piece of cake, and presents to his room,
as his parents cried tears of joy over the most wonderful birthday
party they ever attended!
For additional stories like Hunter's,
please visit w.georgianainstitute.org
to order the books, The Sound of a Miracle, and Dancing
in the Rain, along with an informational video explaining
Digital Auditory Aerobics.